Understanding Terms and Acronyms

Working Definitions

"LGBT" or "GLBT:" Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual or Transgendered, or (in an effort not to show primacy for gay men) Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual or Transgendered. Other variations add "A" for "Allies" or "Q" for "Questioning."

Gay: Generally, a male who is attracted to members of his own sex. "Gay" is also widely accepted as a shortcut term for all people whose sexual feelings differ from the majority. This includes homosexual, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and questioning. It does not include people who feel a sexual attraction to minors.

Lesbian: Specific term for women who are sexually attracted to members of their own sex.

Bisexual: Refers to people who feel equally attracted to their own sex and the opposite sex.

Transgender: Those whose internal sexual identity as male or female differs from their body's gender. This term, often shortened to "trans," is useful for a variety of persons who may feel this way, regardless of whether they have chosen to undergo surgery.

Queer: Formerly a pejorative, many in the LGBT community have chosen to take ownership of this word, generally using it as a means to combat feelings of victimization. Seen as a reason for pride with one's sexual orientation.

Allies: Heterosexual people who work to ensure that GLBT persons are not denied the protections of law or the freedom to express their sexuality in appropriate manners that are the equivalent of all.

Out: Originally "out of the closet," a word for living honestly with one's own sexuality. "Coming Out" means telling people you're gay. It is never something to be taken lightly. If someone confides to you that they're gay, they are taking a huge risk of rejection. If you are thinking of coming out to friends or family, be aware of the risks; for teens, it's best to have support available before telling your parents.